I'm really sorry for bringing this thread active again. I'm sorry if it causes any upset.
I've been away from the site and social media in general for so long. I joined AnswerBank this evening and the first thing I did was look to see if Ummmm had been active recently, then I saw this thread. I was going to come back and wish everyone an early Merry Christmas and to thank everyone for all the support you've all given me over the years. I didn't know she had passed.
Ummmm was my friend, she was so kind and caring, she'd help anyone, especially the people that were struggling - like me, at the time. She and Ginge opened their hearts to me, gave me somewhere to stay when my marriage ended. I only wish I could have been around more and be there for her. I wish I had been a better friend.
If she were here right now, I'd thank her for being the light in my darkness, she saved my life. She wasn't alone, there are others on this site (you know who you are) that have been there for me, supported me even when I'd snap or be in a spiral of depression. Thank you.
Karen, you will be missed.
Love Diz xxx