Why do men end a relationship by

[sosad]

not returning any calls or texts and just ignoring you?

When you've had what you thought a serious relationship which last for years?

[confused79]

I agree most men are cowards, whether ending a relationship if they have been unfaithful or for any other reason, most i think would take the cowards approach in dumping by text! simple reason i think is that they had to 'talk' about anything. same goes when they are in relationship and their partner might want to 'talk' most men run a mile and make excuses!
See us women are defo the stronger sex and dont forget it.
I know i will get some man saying different on here, but hey i swear the men who are not cowards are the smallest 1% of the country and its so hard to find them!

[raysparx1]

Thanks Scarlett, you may have met some that are, but don't judge us all by the wazzocks you have met, why do you generalise like that.

[sosad]

Thank you for all your words of wisdom. I am finally beginning to see he's a t.@t.

Why did I love so much?

[laurence2]

I agree that ex-amount of men are spineless when it comes to ending a relationship, my brother fits the bill perfectly ie not returning txts/calls.

I also believe that ex-amount of women out their get attracted to these type of men, once again my sister in law is a prime example with these such men, saying that, shes been with the same fella now for 2 years, and looks quite content with things now, so the moral of the storey is, if you keep looking hard enough, your find Mr right sosad, where not all D!ckheads.

[Scarlett]

ray, trust me, I am not trying to be offensive or rude here!! Everytime I meet a man (doesn't have to be sexual) I spend the first year or so thinking what a great person they are, and invariably they end up letting themselves down by being a spiney toad. This is not just me, I have discussed this with my sisters and friends, and they all say they have yet to meet a man with a spine. Believe me, I would LOVE to be proved wrong! I am not a feminist or a man hater- on the contrary, I love men! I think they are fabulous and I love their company. But they all end up demonstrating their lack of spine in the end. Sorry if I have offended you!

[raysparx1]

Hi Scarlett,you haven't offended me, I just find it sad,because during my life I have only ever been 100% honest in relationships, and I thought most people were, I know I have brought my two sons up to respect women and to treat them properly, and I don't mean just opening the door, I mean as equals and to be honest and faithful, I am also sorry that the experiences you have had along with a lot of the other posters on here have seen most blokes as spineless, I never realised men were loooked at like this as I can only say how I and my mates behave, none of my mates have ever had affairs, and we have all been married for a long, long time, hope you do find a bloke with a bit of backbone, cos there are some out there, well I hope there are still some, but it is also hard for decent blokes to find a nice girl, both my sons would love to settle down and have children, but as they both say finding a decent girl is hard, plenty of oner night stands, but neither of them want that, so I suppose it works both ways, good luck, and take care, Ray xx

[tiggerwoo]

Ray.....you are the man we've all been looking for!!!!!! Just one tiny problem....your wife got there first lol.

[scrumpy78]

send him dirty texts, get him going, wait til he replies, keep all texts, voice mails, then show his new girlfriend what a toerag he is, revenge is sweet, or find some other way of revenge. I was once dumped after sleeping with a guy that i thought actually wanted more,,, i saw him about a year later in B & Q with a girl. Fortunately I was with my friend and her baby. I grabbed the baby and walked straight down the aisle past them so he noticed, then said things like " now which colour should mummy choose"... shock horror on his face. I didn;t acknowledge him but i hope it left him wondering forever!