Is it gonna end?

[dot.hawkes]

My daughter is off work with post bereavement depression, she went to the doctors yesterday and he has signed her off for another 2 weeks and given her another prescription, she has lost 4 friends in the space of 8 months and my two sons also knew 3 of the 4 very well and have all been very upset. i have just popped round to see my daughter and she is in a state, a close friend has died in his partners arms this morning of a heart attack, he was the godfather of the girl who died 12 months ago . What else can you do but look upwards and ask why? I knew him quite well and he was a real character and very popular in the village, we thought the last year had been bad but that things could never be like that again : (

[pussnboots]

So sorry Dot to hear about your daughters bad time. My son and daughter have both had periods in their lives when things have been bad and as a parent all you want to do is take the pain away. Luckily now they have both come through it as life tends to happen. I know it ie easy to say but I'm sure with your support your daughter will come through the other side. Take care pussxx

[Drisgirl]

Dot - not only does your daughter need a bit of help just now I think you do.We are both singing from the same songsheeet ATM -so you know my EMail addy but if you dont its [email protected]
Now I will give ypu my phone number and we can have a chat -I cant do MSN despite Jo's best efforts -bless her.
Now we have to get our girl's back on track -J is 19 in a couple of weeks -it would be good if they could even have contact with each other -away from the people who are hurting.
Now please get in touch Dot -it makes sense and I will see J about it -they might not even touch on it but its someone else outside the circle they can have a chat with -they might even become friends -who knows.One thing I do know is that they have something in common and my J would embrace that.Now Dot dont please ignore this as its important for both our girls and even for us to help them through it xxx

[Lore]

Such a heart breaking post Dot, I'm so sorry to hear of the awful pain you've all obviously suffered for some time now.
I guess the only way forward is to try to remember the good times and stay positive ( as hard as that must be just now)

I Hope everything starts to look a little brighter for you and yours in the very near future, but for now, try to be there for each other and hold on to the memories.

I lost a very good friend last summer and even though I've come to terms with it, there are still days when I feel so much anger and pain for her sudden death. Luckily I have contact with her family and get to see them when we're up in Glasgow. This helps to keep the memories alive.

[tiggerblue10]

Aww Dot thats awful. I'm really sorry to hear that hun. I think everybody has said everything there can be said.

Thinking of you. xxx

[Drisgirl]

Dot -please EMail me when you read this again
I cant bear he thought of 2 young girls suffering like this when they might be able to help each other.

NOW please get in touch.- i'll get j to bebo your dauh3tr -i ont know how the eff it works but at least thet can be online pals -better than nothing -at least they will know they are going through the same thing.
Now -dont ne a silly arese -just EMail me -H is home and its Mumm and dads Golden Wedding but I will come on -otherwise get my number from Jo -do it -xx

[Redbel]

Hiya Dot, I can't add much to what has been said. But just wanted to let you know, you are all in my thoughts. xx

[tickledtrout]

Sorry to read your post dot, one of my friends is having a similar experience. She has lost 3 Grandparents and her Mother an less tha 12 months, and is now on the maximum dose of antidepressents from the Doctors. Hope that you both feel better soon xx