What should I do when my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend?

[anitane]

My boyfriend of over three years has cheated on me with my best friend. I am talking to him but don't think I can talk to her again. They have denied it for three months and I just found out about it through him. He is coming here next week. Should I stay with him or let him go? What do you think?

[Rollo]

You should probably dump them both.

They have cheated and lied. Could you ever trust either of them again?

[redcrx]

why talk to him but not to her? they are both to blame.

[lil75]

Get shot of the pair of em!

[sandmaster]

At your age I may have given them a 2nd chance. At my age I know that is futile. Ditch them.

[trimmed-bush]

just play it cool and sleep with all your best friends boy friends. see how the 2 faced b1tch likes it. as for your bf well easy. sh@g his best friend too and tell him his mate was better in the sack

[Sasha-2008]

there is no right or wrong answer, but I understand how hard it is when you love someone.

But what the others are saying is true, you won't be able to trust either of them again and you don't want to carry on not having any trust. Trust is so important in a r-ship.

If they have lied to you then it makes it worse then if they had just been upfront at the beginning. If I was you I would take some time out from both of them to clear your head. It's going to be hard but you don't deserve to be treated like that, especially by people who are meant to care about you.

take care. xx

[curious_cat]

That must have been awful for you to find out that the two people you trusted the most betrayed you..I'm so sorry you had to go through that!

I would agree with the others, infidelity isnt a matter of circumstance...it a characteristic of their personality....

[legendis.god]

threesomes are the in thing according to cosmo magazine .

[bednobs]

why the difference in talking to him and not her? After all, she didnt cheat on you, he did!

[brenda]

Slap her hard around the face and knee him in the groin--then forget both forever.

[craft1948]

go brenda go .........(she's into kneecapping you know)

[sara3]

keep your dignity but walk away from both of them. see how they get on together.. that's the best revenge ;o)

[tamborine]

ditto my reply here:

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/R elationships-and-Dating/Question726728.html

why are you so desperate?