Jobs & Education0 min ago
First Date, is he interested ???
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I went on a date thursday night. We met through a dating website but discovered he only lived 5 minutes away from each other. Anyway, we have been chatting a few weeks and got on like a house on fire. He asked me to go for a drink last minute thursday night, I was abit hesitant as didn't wana look desperate or anything but agreed. He took me to a pub which we both haven't been in before (I asked not to go local, he wanted to) we didn't stay long. When we drove back we talked about all sorts and he kept saying he loved my positive outlook on life. He also said he felt as ease and very relaxed around me which was good, A few times he also wanted to tell me he wasn't looking for a one night stand he actually wanted a relationship.
We ended up back at his, lying on his bed (no tele in the living room of his flat) watching Kymatica on youtube. He casually asked me could I do an indian head massage on him, I said no, 10 minutes late he asked me to do a hand massage I again said no. Then he asked me to tickle his back, I ended up doing it. It was funny. I may state that at no point neither of us where put in a situation on any sexual level. He kept putting his hand on me like in an affectionate way.
He gave me a big hug and kissed me on the cheek goodnight. He's been away for the weekend visiting his daughter and I've been busy too. I haven't text him and I haven't heard from him. We didn't mention another date so I'm not too sure? Guess it's a waiting game.
He is exactly my type and he seems like a lovely guy. Hes 10 years older than me, hes an aries and Im a sagitarrius.
What do we think??? xxx
We ended up back at his, lying on his bed (no tele in the living room of his flat) watching Kymatica on youtube. He casually asked me could I do an indian head massage on him, I said no, 10 minutes late he asked me to do a hand massage I again said no. Then he asked me to tickle his back, I ended up doing it. It was funny. I may state that at no point neither of us where put in a situation on any sexual level. He kept putting his hand on me like in an affectionate way.
He gave me a big hug and kissed me on the cheek goodnight. He's been away for the weekend visiting his daughter and I've been busy too. I haven't text him and I haven't heard from him. We didn't mention another date so I'm not too sure? Guess it's a waiting game.
He is exactly my type and he seems like a lovely guy. Hes 10 years older than me, hes an aries and Im a sagitarrius.
What do we think??? xxx
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a 'hand massage' is that something to do with massaging hands or using hands to massage something!
12:34 Mon 09th May 2011
Hi guys! Little update. Took the advice of backing off completely. But guess what? I got the 'friends' text on Monday night. Can't say am gutted coz I was kinda expecting it. I let him know that I wasn't gona bend over backwards for any man and I personally thought he wanted a servant from him saying 'my way or no way' basically said i was better than that and that I wished him luck. Everyone saying he'll be back in touch because he said he wanted to be friends, I had to be honest with him and say he didn't have anything to offer friendship wise. Im moving out my mums in the next few weeks so I've got that to keep me occupied plus I get to percent in work too so alls not bad. Dating is a game that's gotta be played but right now I think an gona concentrate on myself, my apartment and my career xxxx
