Last year my daughter bought us both very nice poppy brooches from the British Legion to wear every year instead of the plastic ones. (Obviously we donate to the appeal.)
I've got a poppy brooch and a wristband (if you buy the biker wristband from their site, it's black not blue which IMO is more appropriate). http://www.rblr.co.uk.../?page=wristbands.php
The poppy brooches this year have an option for 2012 printed on them - clever, it means you can't be mean and not buy one next year.
They seem to be pretty cheap and nasty these days. I remember them as a child being 2 layers of red felty stuff with a black button with Haig Fund written on it (didn't come with a leaf either).