Men?!!

[bumble]

This is just a little question to all the men out there who i'm hoping could shed some light on a few things. Heres goes, I met a guy in a bar a month ago, we text each other constantly, we went out together on 3 dates, which he was always suggesting, he's been texting saying when are we going out again etc. I'd see him and he'd be all over me, and he seemed very interested. Well we went out yesterday afternoon, (he'd text me the night before saying he couldn't wait to see me), we had a nice time, he dropped me home and said he didn't want to leave me. 4 hours later I get a text from him telling me he doesn't want anything serious and he doesn't want to keep leading me on, cause he aint ready for anything, and just wanted to be straight with me and that's it, it's over. HELLO, what was all that about?!!

[mash]

Personally i would have thought that he is either

1. frightened of any form of relationship (I have a friend just like this), 2. only after sex (a weakness on our part!) 3. already in a relationship and getting nervous about the situation, a good test is if you only ever do text's.

[jedimistress]

How long has it been since his last relationship ended?

[jimboy2]

not wanting to make you paranoid and sorry but i am always straight to the point. it could be that someone has told him something about you and it put him off