no sexual relationship

[rosamundjohn]

I think that my long term relationship is a mess as he is not interested and never has been, Answers from males please?

[ummmm]

Why just males?

Women go through this too...

[pdust]

if he wasnt interested in the first place then its not really him thats changed.......

[rozia]

why males? im female and i would dump him, if he wont make an effort.

[tenrec]

My partner is not particularly interested in sex, but he is a very good partner in so many other ways.

[Postdog]

how old is he?

[jno]

is this some dig at Halifaxmum's post?

http://www.theanswerb.../Question1101477.html

[ummmm]

It seems that way jno :-(

[Mick-Talbot]

None of us are .... we fake it the vast majority of times.

[murraymints]

so why do you think you have any kind of relationship...

[rosamundjohn]

tenrec-yes but this is not really good enough is it?

[B00]

I'm really really confused...why would this be a dig at halifaxmum's post? And after reading Halifaxmums thread- is the OP a man?

[B00]

i meant- is halifaxmum a man?

[carrust]

What have you done to turn him on? It takes two to tango...

[rosamundjohn]

murraymints-because I FIND HIM ATTRACTIVE AND REALLY LOVE HIM

[jno]

not a dig exactly, B00, but rj suggested Halifaxmum try Viagra (perhaps not realising Halifaxmum was female?) then asked if relationships without sex could work, which seems to be the question she's repeating here with regard to her own relationship. Perhaps it is a genuine question triggered by Halifaxmum's predicament.

[rosamundjohn]

CARRUSTS. HE IS NOT INTERESTED.

[pdust]

if you shout that easily in real life its hardly surprising his chappy isnt happy

[cazzz1975]

was he interested at the beginning? you must of had some sort of "connection" to get together surely?

[murraymints]

rose..that may well be..but you said yourself he is not interested..you can't make someone love you..let go move on and find someone that will be interested..

[B00]

ok, that makes sense jno- ta...except for halifaxmums post...profile says shes female but mentions "she" and "her" when mentioning her own partner???

Ahh, bugger it, too tired ot work it out- going to bed, sorry to intrude on your post RJ, hope you get your problem sorted.