Do You Think This Is Odd

[fruitsalad]

I do not feel the need to socialise, I'm not bothered whether people like me or not, and I don't need lots of friends or acquaintances.

[jennyjoan]

you are what you are

[tamborine]

Am like you tho I have to connect at work. I prefer to be alone at home with all yoos on Ab & the tv sometimes. Am a drop out but prefer my own company or my siblings that all live afar.

[murraymints]

no..not at all ..it comes with age I think..to be content with your own company is not a bad thing and the need to please others diminishes as does their opinion of you...

[jennyjoan]

however, sometimes for me only - if I am on my own that wee bit too long I do yearn for some company and realise that my true personality comes out ie I come out of myself. I am in the position of visiting many people but cannot be bothered. Haven't seen my cousin for yonks - yet last Thursday I believe she called and my lights of my house were on - I never leave them on - I was over in neighbours for about 5 minutes and missed my cousin.

[tamborine]

Jeez MM If it's ageist there won't be many at our funerals?

[lady-janine]

so why do you feel the need to tell us if you feel like this?

[murraymints]

Tambo..I'll come to yours if you come to mine ! LOL

[lady-janine]

i'll go to both of yours if you come to mine. these offers could get really good. we'll have quite a party between us.

[tamborine]

Am bequeathing my body to science.

[murraymints]

they wouldn't want mine !!

[jennyjoan]

I partied for about 4 years there nearly every weekend - supplying mostly food but sometimes drink and cigs for those who smoked. I couldnt cope with being 60 and called it a day. I did play wonderful music mind you and stopped all those years ago on my hi-fi - but now play on a little radio which I dont hear too well.


However I love music and am going to sort all my cds and cassettes and start to play hi-fi music - I did have an interary of the cds and cass but can't find.

I would love dearly to find a cassette that I recorded myself (cant sing) but played nat king cole and myself singing together. Because of the orchestra sound came out not too bad that one my friends said who is the girl singing with Nat - says I it was me.

[murraymints]

I played golf with his brother Freddy Cole !

[tamborine]

^^ youve lost me there MM ?

[1ozzy]

You're copying me!!

But I do like a natter on here.

[tamborine]

Only so long as the router allows, 0zzy. My golf buddies went dead on me after OH died. Fine friends they turned out.

[murraymints]

jenny sang on a tape with Nat King Cole..I played golf with his brother Freddie !

[tamborine]

Gottit MM. My last club the Big Bertha sits at my front door to bash burglars....that I often dream about?

[Mosaic]

You sound just like me Fruitie. We could get together and sit in separate rooms, being happy.

[ummmm]

I don't think it's odd. I'm not very sociable.

[Cloverjo]

Can I join you, fruitie and mosaic? Sounds ideal to me.
Fruit salad, I'm exactly the same. People at work think I'm odd because I'm not chatting away all day. I'm not aloof, I'll talk if there's something to talk about, and ask people about their family, holidays etc. but I can't just chat all day. I have a horror of going to parties.