Incestuous Relationship

[kittymimi88]

Should i be worried that my boyfriend will again have a 'new' incestuous relationship with his aunt? My boyfriend told me that when he was younger he used to sleep with his cousins and the recent was 2-3 months before we became exclusive and we're living together for more than a year now. I'm going out of the country for a month and both he and his aunt told me that she's staying over night at our place, which consists of only a small room with 1 bed. So they'll be in that same room, same bed together alone for 1 night. His aunt is 30( single and a virgin) while my boyfriend is 24. Im so confused whether to trust them... Him or not. Since he's slready done it with his younger cousin last time who's just turned 18. He's very close to that aunt maybe because of the small gap in age but he was also very close to those cousins when he did it with them... Repeatedly. Advise me please!

[jackthehat]

///Maybe im just paranoid, but you don't know what's it like to be molested as a child by your own father no less.yes, im a little paranoid and i just can't help it.///

Are there any other details which you may feel you ought to share with us?
Even though the above nugget has no bearing on your initial post.

[hc4361]

He can have intercourse with his cousins in the UK, it is illegal with his blood aunt.

[Khandro]

DTCwordfan; According to the profile, this poster has only joined AB today and has only asked one question, this one.

[Mamyalynne]

The duplicated thread has been removed Khandro.

Kitty, you've had some advice but to reiterate if this relationship unsettles you time to leave it.

[DTCwordfan]

Thank you for that stunning insight, Khandro. As Mamya has said, the duplicate has been axed.

[Old_Geezer]

Laws vary from State to State in the US.

Go back far enough and most of us are family. It's the distance that defines incest, not the fact of some relationship. Laws vary but cousins are often allowed. Parent/offspring are not.

You do not know if the couch would be made up so they may not even share a bed. Since you believe he is untrustworthy it sounds like you should get out of the relationship. And whether he had his aunt stay should have been something discussed and agreed with prior to you leaving the country.

I think many have already said as much and that this answers your query.

Anyone like to confirm why some of the previous answers have been deleted ? Just curious.

[Quizmonster]

OG, I've forgotten the first one, but the second removed answer was a play on the old American Bible-belt motto, "The family that prays together stays together." I'll leave it there!

[douglas9401]

My advice would be to move to the bayou where such shenanigans attract no attention and may in fact help you in getting to know your new neighbours.

[jourdain2]

Dump him is the simplest answer - and probably the one which will bring you long-term peace.

[Old_Geezer]

Cheers QM

[EDDIE51]

This guy is taking advantage of you being away to have sex with someone else in your own house. It does not matter who it with, he is not faithful or trustworthy . Dump him !

[Cloverjo]

While it is legal to marry a first cousin, I don't think it's ok to sleep with them as a habit, and definitely not ok to sleep in the same bed as an aunt. If she needs to stay overnight and there is no sofa, one of them should sleep on the floor. You will have no way of knowing whether this will happen while you're away, but the fact that he thinks it's ok to sleep with multiple cousins would make me feel rather queasy about the whole situation.

[Bathsheba]

I think kittymimi was just out for some titillation, and here's hoping that he or she have been satisfied now.

[scorpiojo]

;o)

[Old_Geezer]

It was that sort of observation, Baths, that made me wonder what the deletions were for ;-)

[dannyk13]

/// it is illegal with his blood aunt.///
Not according to criminal law, link at 10.07 Thurs 14th

[hc4361]

Sex between aunt/uncle and nephew/niece illegal in Scotland:

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1995/39/part/I/crossheading/incest-and-related-offences

In England and Wales it is illegal under s.27(2)(a) of the Sexual Offence Act 2003:

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1995/39/part/I/crossheading/incest-and-related-offences

[dannyk13]

Ok, I stand corrected.

[jaffacake1]

It's unfaithful

[Prudie]

It's a step too far. Whilst it provides interesting discussion for ABers nobody tells their girlfriend they are going to spend the night in the same bed with their aunt.