Gawd, this thread flushed a few things out but I think i'm mostly reeling form the idea that gay men grow beards to 'appear' more masculine!?! My wonderful, beautiful bi-sexual partner has a beard because he likes them and they suit him, not to try to 'prove his masculinity' - the same applies with the gay guys we know who are beardies, they don't need to appear masculine because they ARE masculine, as they are men. Why do people assume gay men are effeminate? Have they never actually met any, or do they assume that all the gay men they meet must actually be straight because they aren't flouncing around. To answer the original question, no I haven't noticed a lot of gay people on TV lately, but then that's the sort of thing I wouldn't notice anyway because IT. DOESN'T. MATTER. ( and straight people don't need to celebrate their straightness because it's never been illegal, caused them to be ostracised from their society or family or discriminated against- although please celebrate it if you must) :/