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seriously,..I HAVE taken away the remote control when Ive gone to bed at night - how bad does that sound, how controlling, guess that has men thinking OMG a psycho! I did it out of tired desperation, wanting to go to bed but not wanting to feel like he's thinking "ha ha, little does she know what Im doing when she's asleep". Its not as if I dont offer him sex, I would have thought he would have preferred to do it with me than with his hand, but there you go......