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Thanks all for ur answers, curiosity thats the best idea in the world, cos ur completely right that I dont think about other blokes like that! Temptress, I already have "confronted" him with it, although I wouldn't use that word myself, I'd say that I went to him for reassurance because I need to be honest about my feelings with him, if I don't I think I'll go mad with paranoia, just the same way that I'm understanding if he gets paranoid and needs reassurance. Neither of us would want the other to keep quiet about it and just try and forget about the very real paranoid feelings we sometimes have. Also it's not true that all men hate jealous women, yes I think he would get annoyed with me if I was like it all the time but we both know it's just a phase I'm going through. He did actually say that he's (in a wierd way) glad that I get paranoid too cos it shows him that I'm not going to cheat on him (why would I be paranoid about him doing something if I already am?). Thanks again for all the answers.