i have calmed down now and i have decided that i am going to go home and talk things through with her because i love her and hshe is my life and i want us to be together do you think this is the right thing to do not that i care but just out of opinion
Only you can decide that. But if you think you have something worth saving then go for it. But don't do it for the sake of it and end up making both of yourselves miserable.
Glad you have calmed down as i dont and never will condone violence against a woman. My view however regardless of why is that she cheated and once a cheat always a cheat.
good idea newman and no doubt you will appear soon with one of your original user names. but even as a means to encourage debate and your boredom today might be best not to introduce violence to females as acceptable.
only you know if you be trusted to talk to her in person without resorting to violence and only you know if you have a chance of forgiving her and making it work, should she want the same.
Don't know why any of you nice people are bothering to try and help this numpty he's making it all up anyway - who in their right mind would have him as a boyfriend let alone for the last 5 years!!!!