ChatterBank1 min ago
Temptations
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I need some advice please. I am a man in my late thirties and I have a wife and a child. I recently got promoted at work and got a new office etc and a new secretary to boot. My wife is constantly accusing me of having an affair with this woman (who admittedly is very very attractive) I have not done anything with this woman and although I have thought about it (who wouldn't?) I have never cheated on my wife. It is becoming a nightly thing for my wife to interrogate me about this woman and I am starting to now wonder 'if I am being accused of it, why not DO IT?' I don't want to ruin my relationship but this is driving me to distraction.
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Hopefully your secretary would have some say in whether you 'did it' or not - and you don't just have her to boot. :)
Your wife has insecurity and esteem issues, which you can help her with by giving her the reassurance she needs and encouraging her to talk to a professional.
This is ultimately your wife's problem - provided you have done nothing to badly affect her confidence and self-esteem - and only she can deal with it.
When you get home, briefly discuss your working day and then change the subject. Refuse to be drawn, and tell her you spend all day in the office and you want to get away from it when you're at home.
Your wife has insecurity and esteem issues, which you can help her with by giving her the reassurance she needs and encouraging her to talk to a professional.
This is ultimately your wife's problem - provided you have done nothing to badly affect her confidence and self-esteem - and only she can deal with it.
When you get home, briefly discuss your working day and then change the subject. Refuse to be drawn, and tell her you spend all day in the office and you want to get away from it when you're at home.
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