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I'm not stupid.. naive perhaps but stupid no.. I know what married men are like, I've seen it all before a million times over.. (not happening to me though) and I know the tricks they pull and the lines they cast..
And everyone is saying he is using me.... Did anyone ever think for one second that I might actually be using him? I am the one who can walk away.. who can go out, have a laugh, meet other men and I am not tied down to anyone. But truth of the matter is... I am on my own. I have been through a lot in the last few years of my life and sometimes it's nice to know someone wants you. I'm not planning on snatching him away from his wife but it's nice to know, even though he has someone.. he might want me! It's a hard fact of life. Yeah... he may use me to feel more attractive for a few moments and I am sure I cross his mind in a way or two that I shouldn't.. but that's it.. that's all he gets.. and if it helps him through his day.. or even his marriage then so be it.
Everyone on this site is so judgemental and you all act like butter wouldn't melt.
MrK is right... I am honest.. too honest.. this I already know. I say what I feel, what I think and pretty much at the time I think it too! That's me.