I'm SOOOOOO excited...

[Rubyrose]

and I just can't hide it!
I'm about to lose control and I think I like it! Whoooooo

Sorry... I had to do that in here, otherwise I will faint due to excitment!

I am going on lunch with the guy I fancy! :oD

[Rubyrose]

Damn right Geordie! Lol

Right - No-one is saying I am sleeping with the guy. No-one knows what I'd do if he asked me too and I don't even know myself!

He hasn't done anything wrong by having me as a friend and I haven't done anything wrong by fancying him... married or not.. I didn't have a choice!

[cazzz1975]

well you certainly have a choice in where it goes...

[Rubyrose]

Octavius - Thing is he doesn't just 'not mention his wife' to me.. he does it to everyone. He is a very private person and I started at the company a month after him and no-one knew anything about him. So many of them thought he was single, some thought he had a girlfriend, some thought he was married! None of them knew for sure coz he isn't a chatty 'this is my life' kind of guy! He keeps himself to himself but then I got to know him and we chat and he chats about her a lot considering he never used to but at the same time he doesn't mention her much by normal standards! They have been together since they were 16 and he is now 31!

I am off in a mo as we are all going out straight after work to have some cheeky drinks and get a bit lashed! He however can't make it this week as he hasn't seen his wife much in the last week so he wants to go and spend time with her! And it doesn't bother me... why should it? It doesn't stop me liking him either though.

[Champagne]

Hahahahahaha!!! Genius, I tell thee!

:oD

[flora696]

Never had a "full blown" affair with a married man What??!!........Never say never, why the hell not? Affairs wreck lives, just because people still do it doesn't justify it for you to have a go, because you haven't learnt yet, learn from others mistakes too.

[Rubyrose]

Yes I've never had an affair with a married man... I've been very good friends with one and perhaps we crossed some form of line... but never did anything that could be deemed affair... or perhaps even cheating! I have kissed a married man on a drunken night out but I only met him that night and didn't really know he was married!

No one is f*cking listening! I am NOT saying I am going to ever have an affair but I am a firm believer in never saying never coz I can't promise I won't! I don't know what kind of person I will be in 10yrs time. I don't know what kind of person I will be next year! Im not the same person as this time last year... I never thought I'd fly on a plane but I am going on Monday! Never say never!

[flora696]

Everyone is listening and I think answering probably more out of concern than anything, you posted your "question" on this site you must have known you would get a reaction but obviously not this huge! Just be careful and be sensibe.

[Rubyrose]

BTW - I just got the lift down with him as he was leaving and I was taking the post down! Banter all the way... I think we just click and that makes it easy for us to be friends. Thats what its all about!

[mrknowall]

Anyway rubes you enjoy your drink and your holiday on Monday then come back and tell us all that went on.

Lol
At least you open and honest
Take care
mrk x

[Roughquest]

Oh dear Ruby, you have opened a can of worms honey bunch. It is not good seeing a married man, but having done so twice - and both ended badly - I cant comment, or condem your actions, BUT - as you say married men very rarely leave their wives. AT THE END OF THE DAY IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO, WHY DO PEOPLE ALWAYS SLATE THE WOMAN IN THESE SCENARIOS ?????
You are not a ho dearest, you are young free and deserve to have a good time and deserve to have some happiness, just be careful which I know you will be.
RQ xx

[cazzz1975]

I agree with that roughquest, Im not trying to give ruby a hard time, I just feel concerned that she might set herself up for getting hurt.

[B00]

Re-reading these again reminded me of the old Bonnie Tyler song. Hope Rosie doesn't take offence, but thought I'd share- lol.

http://www.lyricsfreak.com/b/bonnie+tyler/marr ied+men_20022874.html

[bobtheduck-]

Zzzzzzzzzzzz

[cazzz1975]

sounds like bonnie tyler has learnt a few things from experience as well!!

[B00]

And...not only did your question get to the top of the page, you also received Bob's seal of approval on it.....oh you lucky gal ;-)

[bobtheduck-]

To think people spent a summers afternoon discussing this :)

[B00]

well I suppose we could have talked about beige slacks, bingo or Mrs Harris instead?

Watcha reckon?

[cazzz1975]

Its a topical issue for people who dont "do " rubber

well I suppose brenda doesnt mind you groping other bits of plastic when she is deflated. ;)

[bobtheduck-]

or got a job boo :)