I'm SOOOOOO excited...

[Rubyrose]

and I just can't hide it!
I'm about to lose control and I think I like it! Whoooooo

Sorry... I had to do that in here, otherwise I will faint due to excitment!

I am going on lunch with the guy I fancy! :oD

[girlygirl2]

Is that the best you can come up with Joshie? Tut tut

[joshieboyo]

There was no question. It was statement about being excited about going out with the guys she fancies. Who also happens to be married. And everyone wished her good luck?!?!

[joshieboyo]

For the time being. Yes

[Rubyrose]

Well thanks to ALL concerned and I know that you expected me to come back on a bit of a low to all these messages but I must say I am in a fantastic mood!

We wandered... he needed to buy things and I went with him.. we had a laugh! It was nice!

Thing is... I do fancy him. Everyone knows. He knows. Doesn't mean we aren't also friends. We have always got on well. Have a laugh. Email, send jokes. I don't expect anything from him. I don't think he is willing to give me anything. I know where I stand. I don't put my life on hold because of him. It's a crush. I'm a grown up (23 actually Boo.. well 23 in July.. 20 when you met me though ;o)) It's nice to have someone to go to work for. To put make up on in the morning for. Is that really doing any harm? So we went to lunch together... doesn't mean his marriage is over! I was excited about it.. mostly because I always go to lunch with the girls and he is always on business.. so when he is back.. it's nice to see him!

Anyway.. I'm happy. That's what is important.. Like I give a cr@p what you lot think! Lol

Xx

[Joe_the_Lion]

Josieboyo, if you are going to upset people, you must learn from my experience that it has to be done with a degree of class.

Calling somebody a ho, not only makes you sound like a 13 year old wannabe black ganster, but it shows that you are indeed a boy of little life long experience.

May I suggest you go and suck on your Grandmother's breasts, to realise what a "ho" actually is.

Ruby is not a wh0re, she may be a little naive with this married man malarkey, but that is the joy of her youth. And as long as her eyes flutter, may she have this joy.

You, however joshieboyo, deserve a good punch to the head. Not death, but maybe the loss of an eye.

[joshieboyo]

Yes of course that's your recaction now. Wouldn't want all your AB buddies to know you were a ho would we. If there had been only praise about him on this site then your return response would have been slightly different. oh well.

[joshieboyo]

Welsh poof? Is that you?

[girlygirl2]

Is it me or is Joshie vocabulary limited to the word "Ho"????
She say's I'm thick....

[joshieboyo]

I happen to like the word Ho.

[girlygirl2]

Santa - is that you?!

[joshieboyo]

*sigh* you are such a child... i am patiently waiting here for rubys seven page reply that will no doubt be full of b*sh*t

[Joe_the_Lion]

I imagine he picked it up from Santa's Grotto when the bearded man said "Ho, ho ho".

Not that I have anything against our coloured cousins, but why somebody would wis to emulate their atavistic language is beyond me.

But I shall try.

" I'm gonna pop a cap in ya ass"
"Yo, motherfkcuer, chill man"
"You know whatta am saying"

How am I doing?

[cazzz1975]

ruby, I will say this, it does sound like a lot of flirting goes on whether you want to admit it or not, I know he is a friend but when us girls go hot for a guy the natural flirt comes rushing to the surface!!

Please tread carefully, you wouldnt want to ruin his marriage, because for one thing it would also show up the kind of guy he really is, If he could do that to his wife he could do it to anyone...

[4getmenot]

ah but girly you put even if he did so what. I didnt mean to get her in that much trouble I was just shocked no one had picked up on the fact he was married. I know its just a crush.

[Octavius]

If I was stalked through my lunch hour by a silly over-acting attention seeking child, I am certain regardless of any innocence that Mrs O would no doubt remove my testicles with a hedge trimmer.

I also believe that if a married man posted this question he would have been bruised and battered with flying handbags and stiletto heels within 3 replies.

[cazzz1975]

thats how affairs start tho 4get, with a jokey crush that everyone knows about

[girlygirl2]

Joe - you sound just like Joshie although with an extended vocabulary!

4get - you didnt get her in trouble, I got 99.9% of the abuse!!!! lol

[Rubyrose]

Caz - A point well made but not one that stands to be completely correct! Just because someone cheats on their partner, it doesn't mean they will do it forever more and that thats the kind of person they are. It's to do with the relationship they are in! My ex never cheated.. He went from a 3yr relationship, to a 5yr relationship with me.. everyone thought he was the most trusting guy in the world. Then he left me for someone he worked with! He hadn't cheated.. but he left! Everyone is different!

All that said - He is not going to cheat on his wife with me... 1 - I wouldn't let it happen! Yes I fancy him. Yes he is fit. Yes I love flirting with him and YES he flirts back! But... I don't want to be that girl. Especially as I love my job and I wouldn't risk losing it!

Wardy - So much respect for you right now btw ;o)

[Joe_the_Lion]

Girly one, if that is truly the case, I shall resign my commission from AB forthwith!!!!

The cheek!!!!

[4getmenot]

abuse abuse?, debate my dear girlgirl :-) I know cazz when I first thought he didnt know then yer bit of harmless fun, but this seems a bit more serious from the fainting statement. someone could get hurt and I dont think it will be him.