I'm SOOOOOO excited...

[Rubyrose]

and I just can't hide it!
I'm about to lose control and I think I like it! Whoooooo

Sorry... I had to do that in here, otherwise I will faint due to excitment!

I am going on lunch with the guy I fancy! :oD

[B00]

And in answer to girlygirl- yeah, Josh does have his (her?) nicer moments. Can be a sweetheart at times- honest!!!

[joshieboyo]

she's 21? Old enough to know better no? If your husband was going out to lunch with a 21 year old that you KNEW fancied him rotten, would you justify her actions by saying she was "only young"?

[joshieboyo]

no girlygirl. you are right. I am actually a cyber bully. real people scare me. pixels are my friend.

[girlygirl2]

It's funny BOO - I have never seen it.
However, you are one of the many one's I actually have respect for on here so I'll take your word for it.

[girlygirl2]

I feel sorry for you, I really do because I bet it's totally true.

[B00]

Dunno that's a toughy to be honest. I guess it's back to the trust thing.

Yes I'd be sniffingly dismissive of the young girl out on a "date" with my husband, however I know I'd trust Mr Boo not to act upon any advances she might make- actually I think he'd sh1t himself if i'm being honest!

[joshieboyo]

Oh have you actually met B00? Or do you just respect and admire and love her online persona. ha ha you sad old tw*t.

[joshieboyo]

It is true. I sit here on the answerbank, eating my wotsits and bullyinh ho's. Ho hum, such fun.

[girlygirl2]

Well I'm married and if my Husband was going out to walk into town with another girl, I can honestly say that it wouldn't bother me.
I'm glad that we have a trusting relationship and understand that men and women can just be friends.

[joshieboyo]

Duh! That's the whole point. Ruby doesn't just want to be friends does she? If it were purley platonic then there would be no problem but she wants more. Deary me you are thick.

[girlygirl2]

Joshie if you had actually read my answer I said I respect BOO NOT admire, the reason behind this is because I have been using this site for over a year now and she has offered great advice and she has helped me out also.
Cyber world or not - that counts for something.
Where as you, just seem to come on here give abuse then lap up the negative attention you are given. My guess is that you are actually a very lonely person and the reason for that is because you have no interpersonal skills what so ever.
You would not speak to someone like you speak to people on here because you are a coward and being "big and hard" on here makes you feel like a Queen, but everyone knows you are just pathetic.

[joshieboyo]

and your point is............?

[whiffey]

I am with the sceptics here. Lunch is just lunch, but if things progress out of hand, then a bit of a giggle could turn into a horrible situation, even a broken marriage.

[4getmenot]

Sorry for pointing that out to everyone rubyrose :-( I�ve made them all get on your case now. I can understand but I can also see that this is just a man you fancy, I don�t think he knows and it was just a case of going to get food together, Well I hope. :-)

[girlygirl2]

So what if Ruby doesn't want to be just friends? It doesn't mean he would do anything about it. Even if he did, so what? There are worse things happening in the world at the moment - you for a start.

[girlygirl2]

That was directed at Joshie by the way not forget....

[joshieboyo]

Please. You will hurt my feelings.

[4getmenot]

but girly (now a healthy debate question) If you were the wife would you be saying so what if they want to do more

[joshieboyo]

How funny. It's probably her old man that ruby has gone to lunch with

[girlygirl2]

Oooh a debate!!! You know my weak spots you little tinker!
Of course not 4get, however the question was about just walking into town with a guy that is married not sleeping or having a full blown affair with him.

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