finding out sex of child in a scan

[poltergeist]

well my wife today has just found out that she is going to have a boy. I am actually really dissappointed and now not looking forward to it at all.

I just cant imagine having a son and never ever wanted one. my wife doesnt care either way. Is there anything I can do to overcome these feelings? I really just am flattened buy this

[mrs_overall]

yawn

[poltergeist]

huh? thats a bit rude. so its ok for all you lot to come whinging about there 'terrible lives' but not ok for me?

[sophie_1003]

No, leave her and let her enjoy her son without your negative feelings bringing her down.

[poltergeist]

we only got married 1 month ago.... i know my neative feelings will bring her down thats why i am asking duh

[sqad617]

yawn, yawn...coming to bed mrs_O?

[sophie_1003]

So leave her, much better now than later

[pastafreak]

Be happy that mum and soon-to-be son are doing well. If your baby turns out NOT to be healthy....THEN you can moan. How superficial can anyone be???
Accept what god or nature ......or chromosomes ....have given you.

[mrs_overall]

If I have the choice of reading more of Poltergeist's life on Fantasy Island or hopping between the sheets with you Sqad......

Get those bed socks off now, tiger!

[poltergeist]

yes but I just think girls are cuter than boys.

[sn�gs]

''I just cant imagine having a son and never ever wanted one.''

Well you always had a 50/50 chance didn't you...

Stop being a miserable s0d and get over it... I'd be more concerned that 'any' new child was fit and healthy...

[sqad617]

mrsO....you won't regret it .....LOL

?Bed socks?

[nix-j-c]

god, when you have a baby theres a fifty fifty chance or there abouts of it being a boy. if you werent prepared to have a boy why do her in the first place.

if you went to a casino and there was a fifty fifty chance of you losing your house i doubt many people who gamble if you werent prepared to live without a house.

[poltergeist]

fantasy lol
u r the one 'fantasising' at the sounds of it.

[poltergeist]

i was relieved it was healthy. but I just was dissapointed. is that wrong?

[sn�gs]

''Yes but I just think girls are cuter than boys. ''

If you wanted 'cute' you shouldv'e got a fluffy kitten instead...

[Mctavish]

I wonder what you are expecting everyone to say to enable you to get over these feelings. That poor little boy is going to live a wonderful life when he arrives having a father with such negative thoughts. Your poor wife is the one who needs
the support she is obviously not going to get from, you.

[poltergeist]

i tried that snags but you get bored of them after a while I guess...

[nix-j-c]

poltergeist you sound young and spoilt to me.

i bet your used to having everything your own way and know this is just rediculous.

GROW UP.

[pastafreak]

You have no-one to blame but yourself