well my wife today has just found out that she is going to have a boy. I am actually really dissappointed and now not looking forward to it at all.
I just cant imagine having a son and never ever wanted one. my wife doesnt care either way. Is there anything I can do to overcome these feelings? I really just am flattened buy this
Be happy that mum and soon-to-be son are doing well. If your baby turns out NOT to be healthy....THEN you can moan. How superficial can anyone be???
Accept what god or nature ......or chromosomes ....have given you.
god, when you have a baby theres a fifty fifty chance or there abouts of it being a boy. if you werent prepared to have a boy why do her in the first place.
if you went to a casino and there was a fifty fifty chance of you losing your house i doubt many people who gamble if you werent prepared to live without a house.
I wonder what you are expecting everyone to say to enable you to get over these feelings. That poor little boy is going to live a wonderful life when he arrives having a father with such negative thoughts. Your poor wife is the one who needs
the support she is obviously not going to get from, you.