Was I being moody

[fitforaking]

Im seeing a guy and I'm not sure if he's that into me. He never initiates sex, its always me! I'm the one who's always cuddling him and I'm the kind of girl who likes a lot of attention. Anyway, last night we were sitting watching TV, he was silenced, watching the box, not touching me or even speaking to me but sitting with one of his two cats, clapping the cat and giving the cat loads of attention. Anyway, I was sitting thinking this over for a while, thinking what I could say to him without being moody! All i wanted was a bit of attention. Anyway I lost it, got up and sat over on the other couch, he asked what was wrong and I replied, YOU! I told him i was confused as to whether or not he liked me, asked why he doesnt touch me etc etc, he then got up and said "im going to my bed, come if you want!" I then went through to his bed, he didnt touch me, turned his back on me, and you could have cut the atmosphere with a knife!!! It was awful! This morning we woke up, still an atmosphere. If he gave me half as much attention as he gives his cats i would be happy! Am i being unreasonable??

[fitforaking]

naaaa, i didnt throw a strop, i was just trying to make things better between us. Your right, he is a bit of a jerk! I deserve better, i deserve affection. x

[icemaiden]

Why don't get a dog? Then you can cuddle the dog and scare off his precious puddytats all in one hit!!!

[icemaiden]

Why dont *you* get a dog?

[smurfchops]

Sounds like he has a problem, I dont think its with you. Try to get him to talk before you switch on the TV in the evening, find out what the problem is. I think its more deep seated than just not talking to you. It might just be his nature. If it was you, I think he would have told you . He obviously enjoys your company or he wouldn't be with you, but for some reason can't show you affection. Nice to hear of someone who actually likes animals instead of abusing them .. there is a heart in there somewhere.