Single/Separated for a Reason????

[stevie1time]

Let me start by saying...Hope yow all had a great crimbo and see the new year in with smiles and exceptional aspirations ;) .....Right,not so much a question but a personal view! Honest replies and criticisms appreciated..So!!! Obviously i am single,have been for nearly two years now,it has its ups and it has its downs..(this is awkward to word) right,i know why i am single,i know what caused my relationship with the mother of my kids to fail,i know it was my fault and i know that my actions and attitude(at that particular time) has made me the single/separated person i am today...Now is it wrong that i see this in anyone that i meet or consider maybe dating...I think to myself,why are they single,or why are they divorced,at one point in their lives,as in my own,someone didnt want them or cheated on them or maybe even they cheated,or someone divorced them,basically something was wrong with them or in their lives that has made them single...just like i know why i am?? Now i am not a negative person at all,the opposite in fact,,but what do you think folks?? am i wrong and being selfish or am i just over cautious to my next step?? P.S if this is dont make sense,then one understands XXXX

[tiggerblue10]

Just ignore it Petal. Its obviously yearning for some much needed attention which it probably doesn't get.

[111116661111]

petal lol

ugly tw@t

no wonder u got no mannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn



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[China Doll]

I don't think that's entirely helpful 11+

It's just a discussion and not really fair to pick on random people for no reason.

[Petal~flower]

tigger and china, obviously someone who is a tad bit jealous that us girls are having an adult conversation.

Pathetic

[111116661111]

told u to send me yo pic!!!!!!!!!!!!!

no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


hahahahahha

now i no iz y


me kilt canny fit ye


tooooooooooooo uglllllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy


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[Petal~flower]

1111.... have you seen what I look like?

I am no ugly ****. am f*cking gorgeous

[Petal~flower]

you are pretending to be legend.

sorry, dont convince me. pratt face

[111116661111]

roffl

den u woke up


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[China Doll]

Oh well, I'm done. I can't be ar$ed with all that.

All I will say is that too much in this life people feel defined by having a significant other or child or some form of relationship. I think it's a case of misplaced values.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a completely hard hearted b1tch, if I meet someone I click with that would be nice. But it's not something I'm banking on and I'd rather grow old alone than settle for something else, it wouldn't be fair on myself or them.

[111116661111]

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[Petal~flower]

you can take the **** out of me.

You know what.

I don't care.

Not working tomorrow, so take your time

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oooooooooooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhh lol

[Petal~flower]

China, I agree with you. better being happy alone, than to settle for being with someone you are unhappy with, as opposed to being on your own. If that makes sense.

Its been a good thread. But now ruined by some useless nob head with no life.

Night China xx

[111116661111]

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fook off bollicks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


sad bint

[tiggerblue10]

I never wanted children when I was in my 20s but I would like a baby now. I don't know if my body clock will allow it. My ex wanted children but I'm glad I didn't have any with him as I never want anything to do with him ever again.

[Petal~flower]

11111 or whatever your stupid friggin name is.

You spoil Ab for everyone else.

You billy no mates cretin

[111116661111]

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[Petal~flower]

tigger, I had my last child when I was 38. So its not too late for you hun. Its meeting the right man is the hard part! xxxxxxx

[111116661111]

yup

kettle



no so clever teverrrrrrrrrrrr eh????????????????????

[111116661111]

38 n a dogggggggggggggggggggggggg


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