Try it, CAJ1
Part of his ...
(getting serious here)
Part of his attraction to porn might be the verbal thing. A lot of guys seem to like to hear a girl saying "fcuk me, fcuk me". It's good for their fragile egos.
So next time he's "down there", how about you try "talking dirty"
Start off not using any rude words. Just say "I love it" or "That's so good"
See how he responds (it will be positive)
They say things like "Yes, lick me just there"
And so on.
Before you know it, you'll be shouting it at each other, and your "wet p*ssy" will be the main subject of both of your cries.
He probably won't need porn any more (except to research great new ways to stimulate your wp).
All this is obviously better if the two of you are alone !