Men and porn!

[CAJ1]

My boyfriend looks at porn, fact of life most men do it and thats ok with me as long as I don't really see it/know about it! Anyway, I was on his laptop and was a bit shocked at the rudeness of some of the subjects he had typed in to google and how many there were. I talked to him about it and he said would I prefer he looked at porn or went out and tried to cheat on me? I took that as meaning if he wasn't looking at porn he would be out looking for it instead to which he said I had twisted what he was saying. What do you make of it? Did I twist what he said? Would men really do that if there was no porn? And how much is too much??

[happyone2]

i think he was being facetious actually, its probably something hes heard someone say and thought it was clever, so repeated it cos he thought it made him look clever.......

i would say that he is happy with his porn and doesnt want to look elsewhere, but only you can really answer that one, you know him best...............

but if you work on the basis that he just made a crass off the the cuff comment without considering the repercussions................. oh another fact of life most men do it !!! then, you didnt twist what he said you just made him realise that his comment was stupid and of course he didnt like that at all !!!

hes okay, your okay !!

[dustinmyeye]

i think you probably did twist his words tbh to suit your own arguement.

[terambulan]

Mostly men who are reared in male dominated homes, without sisters are fascinated with the female form - which I dont consider porn just a natural curiousity subdued in their growth.

Grab the football news pages and ogle the players.....he'll soon get upset.

[joggerjayne]

I can't see anything wrong with "porn"

(except that characters in porn movies all have better sex lives than the rest of us)

green eyed envy

If you're lucky, he might pick up a few good tips to try out with you !!!

[CAJ1]

Thanks for your answer happyone2.

dustinmyeye, what did HE mean then when he said it?

terambulan - he grew up with his mum and sister lol! And he claims it wouldn't bother him if I did it.

Raggy, he's the nicest man I've ever met. He just looks at porn and we had a discusssion about it - that doesn't make him bad!

[CAJ1]

Although I'll agree the first one was a bad one raggy!

Maybe joggerjayne! ;o)

[betterman]

You looked on his laptop, you found something you did not expect, so what did you expect to find?

[joggerjayne]

RuneScape ?

LOL

[CAJ1]

I was borrowing his laptop and it all came up the second I typed in a letter to search for something so I wasn't snooping and I was sat next to him when I did it. I expected some to be on it but not in vast quantities and not with such rude searches typed in!

[CAJ1]

I'm not stupid enough to make the same mistake twice raggy! Please give me some credit lol!

[joggerjayne]

What did he search ?

Come on ... you can tell us !!

I'm curious now.

=0)

[bms]

let us know the whole story so that we can fully understand your problem, because may be if you can tell us what rude things he searched for, may be we can view it the way you see it.
Tell us ! !

[CAJ1]

No! lol, just use your imaginations! You lot probably wouldn't find it rude anyway! Its only because I see him as my bf and never hear him saying words like wet p*ssy *****!

[CAJ1]

Or think of him enjoying the older lady! lol

[CAJ1]

PMSL! Maybe if I find anything on dogging it just means he likes puppies! lol

[in a mo]

I have an expression which is
"If you really do not want to know the answer ,then don't ask the question.

Do you want to knw the truth or do you want me him say what you want to hear .

Curiosity is a devil in a white suit ,whilst we like to look sometimes it does get the better of us (,it is much better as long as no harm is being done,) to know what is going on as long as it does not involve underage sites because that is serious ground,people who do useor run those type of sites should burn in hell.
In A Mo