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Men and porn!
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My boyfriend looks at porn, fact of life most men do it and thats ok with me as long as I don't really see it/know about it! Anyway, I was on his laptop and was a bit shocked at the rudeness of some of the subjects he had typed in to google and how many there were. I talked to him about it and he said would I prefer he looked at porn or went out and tried to cheat on me? I took that as meaning if he wasn't looking at porn he would be out looking for it instead to which he said I had twisted what he was saying. What do you make of it? Did I twist what he said? Would men really do that if there was no porn? And how much is too much??
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what he said was probably just being defensive - taking the heat of the question under discussion, and trying to make him sound better behaved than he is.
As far as the range of his 'interests', I wouldn;t worry too much. men are seriously curious creatures, especially where sex is concerned - just because he looks at something a little more 'out there' than you would imagine does not mean he either wants to do it with you, or if not, with someone else - it just means he is curious.
Remember, things people are curious about does not always reflect a serious personal interest , or an intnetion to carry out the concept being explored.
If you take that to its locigal conclusion, everyone who visited the London Dungeon would be he;ping the police with their enquiries.
what he said was probably just being defensive - taking the heat of the question under discussion, and trying to make him sound better behaved than he is.
As far as the range of his 'interests', I wouldn;t worry too much. men are seriously curious creatures, especially where sex is concerned - just because he looks at something a little more 'out there' than you would imagine does not mean he either wants to do it with you, or if not, with someone else - it just means he is curious.
Remember, things people are curious about does not always reflect a serious personal interest , or an intnetion to carry out the concept being explored.
If you take that to its locigal conclusion, everyone who visited the London Dungeon would be he;ping the police with their enquiries.
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