Is It Normal For My Mum To Be Concerned?

[abbeylee90]

I just told my mum I got a lift with that mam from dogs home to get my covid jab she said be careful with that man he might think you like him one I was on about from dogs home. He took me for dinner afterwards.

[Floko]

Abbey, how does he contact you ....text, phone calls, facebook....?

[elliemay1]

If people are 'slagging him off in general' surely everyone can't be wrong, stay away from him and don't accept anything else from him.

[abbeylee90]

https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Family/Question1847666.html

[abbeylee90]

My mum is fine thank you.

I will from now on thing is we at dogs home same time.

[abbeylee90]

Phone. 

I always turn down going out with mates 

[cashier]

Why did you go for dinner? You could have gone straight home.

[Redhelen72]

Do you think it's acceptable to slag someone off behind their back but accept gifts and meals from there.

[abbeylee90]

I made a mistake. Its what other people from dogs been saying and they've know him longer than me

[Floko]

Abbey I know you enjoy taking the dogs for walks, but is there any  day or time when you can walk them when the man is not there?

 

 

[abbeylee90]

I can avoid lifts home but in mornings he comes looking for me to take me down by my street and gives a lift so I don't ask.

[bednobs]

i think if i were your mum i'd be worried; you appear (on here at least) to have a learning disability, making you vulnerable. maybe he has a low intelligence too, but if he doesnt, its pretty clear hes trying to take advantage of your inability to say no.

 

[abbeylee90]

Yeah afternoon floko

[Floko]

Thanks Abbey, this situation is now appearing to be almost stalking and that is serious. When you take the dogs out, come straight home. Do not answer his phone calls (his number should be visible on your mobile)

[abbeylee90]

It is he don't call me he what's app me

[Floko]

I don't understand  how "whatsapp" works, but can you delete or not answer his messages ?

[abbeylee90]

I told him i don't want to grow old and lonely (like him)

[abbeylee90]

Floko I don't mind answering him on WhatsApp just need to not accept lifts, lunch, gifts

[Floko]

That is giving him the wrong impression, Abbey. You have to be firm.

[abbeylee90]

I'll just leave dogs home earlier or stay later but I would have to go a later time to avoid lifts there.

[Floko]

You can work out a new schedule, Abbey,  and now that you  know Mum is concerned, you can ask for her help/advice.....please