What Do I Do Abour This Guy?

[abbeylee90]

Last week I went on a date with a guy I met on the Internet he very confident and has a big personality but what I don't like is beard and eyebrow piercing he wants to meet up this week before he goes away but I'm not sure what should I do?

[Smowball]

Yes ozzy, I think our wrists have been slapped! I was just going to say to Barry that this IS Chatterbank tho..... (maybe not lol).

[abbeylee90]

He's asked am I still up for meeting tonight 

[abbeylee90]

He is what?

[Moorea7]

Abbey, is Selco happy to allow you to be texting as you did yesterday and today?

[Smowball]

Abbey - we can't possibly tell you whether you should meet him tonight or not. If you want to see him again then go, if you don't then tell him no Thankyou. 

[abbeylee90]

Yes for now as I'm cleaning upstairs.

I prefer tomorrow that all 

[bednobs]

TBH i think (most?) younger people expect to use their phones at work nowadays.  I've noticed it when i'm in the office.  In my last office, we went thru a series of completely feckless temps who somehow expected to take calls and texts when they were supposed to be working (they didnt last long!)   The girl serving me in sainsbury's had her phone the other day (which i was very surprised about)

[SecretMod]

Please answer abbeylees question or leave her alone.

None of you are her employers and it has nothing to do with you when or where she is making her posts.

 

[Moorea7]

Advice to maybe help her in her strive to secure full time work!

[newmodarmy]

But , secret mod, abbey herself broadens the topic of her threads to include things like her job trial or her finances, We have given loads of answers here and on many threads, the vast majority of which are ignored. How many more ways are there of saying 'see him' or 'don't see him'

Maybe just close the thread?

[barry1010]

Just ignore the thread if you no longer want to participate, newmod.

[Redhelen72]

Go out with him for a coffee and get to know him and look past his beard.

Nobody is perfect and fashions change.

[newmodarmy]

But which night, redhelen?

[newmodarmy]

Or maybe I'll just ignore answerbank barry.

[barry1010]

Your choice

[Redhelen72]

He asked her out tonight - so it should be tonight unless she is visiting a sick aunt.

[davebro3]

Nowt wrong wi beards - I had one most of my life, only started shaving when it began to turn grey.😃