redvanman
To an extent I understand your position here and (partially) understand your position, but I think you may have chosen the wrong target and action.
Thanks for raising this interesting question, because up until I did a bit of research, I didn't know Islam's stance on children born out of wedlock.
Now I do:
http://en.islamtoday.net/node/1729
I think what you're pointing to is something I like to call 'buffet faith' (following religious edicts that you can manage, or support certain bigoted views whilst ignoring others that would cause 'a kerfuffle').
Not sure (looking at the link above) that this is the case here.