I can completely understand the sentiments that we should now come together to make leaving work, but I don't think it's necessary to abandon my core beliefs at the same time. Part of making Leaving work must be to take seriously the concerns of those who didn't want to, in order to either prove those concerns wrong altogether or to at the very least mitigate them.
As I said earlier, I would love to feel stupid about all this a few years hence. That's the best I can do, for now.