The distinctions between you and Rowling are numerous -- but here, the pertinent point is that she gets attention from more than just the people on this site. So it's harder to get away from. On the other hand, I can choose to be here or not.
Also, you've commented on my personal circumstances multiple times already. I'm not altogether sure what exactly you feel you have to add. I get it, you think I'm living a fantasy, you think my philosophy is ludicrous, etc. It's not an original thought, it's not one that hasn't occurred to me multiple times already in the last couple of decades.
Also, I flatter myself, but I'm much more experienced about how transgender people are seen by society than you are. Nah, you're wrong. People are more tolerant these days, not less, and despite the noises in the media, it's still trending that way. There will always be reactionaries, and of course you always have to allow for the morons that will abuse new-found freedoms. But, no. You're behind the times, NJ.
Ah, well. You'll get used to it :)