Would You Accept His From Your Long Term Partner

[MDWCT2018]

I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfriend and we have been living together for 8 months now .In the early stages he was in awe of me but he has since, become more comfortable with me.
He lives with me in my flat. we have a next door neighbour who is a single mother with a young boy. The mother is a little bit nuts as one would expect being on her own with her child, but she does 'strange' things too such as walking in the hallway to throw her rubbish in sexy slips etc. Hmmmm......
Her child is very sweet and cute, but makes a lot of noise and I mean A-LOT of noise. If he is not screaming and throwing things and whining, it is his mother.
I have complained many times about this to the landlord because these are tiny city flats with thin walls, not exactly the ideal place to raise a child. The mother doesn't work and they never seem to leave their flat. My boyfriend agrees the woman is crazy but thinks I am a b***h for complaining about the child. Believe me, it not something I have done lightly but at 3 am it is like a banshee wailing and is scary. My best friend has said that for whatever reason my boyfriend has taken this Childs side (even though obviously my fight is not with the child) and that I deserve more loyalty from him. My friend has basically said that my boyfriend has chosen this child over me .... do you see it that way?

[bednobs]

Is that a square miles nailit?

[Prudie]

Wow I just find this thread so weird - it's like CB was years back and has lots of outspoken posters I've never heard of. I can't even contribute to it because I've no idea what is being argued about. Any other wallflowers been following it?

[nailit]

Just a mile Beds...in any direction :-)

[nailit]

//I can't even contribute to it because I've no idea what is being argued about//
I find reading it helps ;-)

[Prudie]

You actually think I haven't??

[nailit]

Know what you mean prudie but I managed to follow it.
Granted, its a bit surrealistic in parts but readable...

[tonyav]

has lots of outspoken posters I've never heard of.

I think that you probably have but just not under the names that they post under now.

[nailit]

Girl meets boy
Boy in awe of girl
Boy display own opinion
Girl decides that theres more fish in the sea

[Prudie]

I did wonder Tony :-)
Nailit you've missed out crying children, negligees, rent, square mile, jobs, being a brat, the list is endless

[nailit]

All mentioned by the OP prudie,
Yep, know what you mean now....weird!

[-SharonA-]

Prudie, been watching from the guidelines from the off and must admit felt sorry for neighbour as my son used to play up at night.

[-SharonA-]

^^^^^ sidelines.

[Cloverjo]

I also felt bad for my neighbour when my son was young and he cried in the night. The walls were thin and it was hard for everyone in the block. You have to accept it won't be silent all the time.
It's worse though when it's deliberate noise, like loud music.

[sherrardk]

Calicogirl - post where and when you wish to, ignore people try who to goad you (I know it’s easier said than done), don’t let others spoil your fun.