Is there a psychologist out there?

[rosamundjohn]

Quote:
I want to live alone. I enjoy my own company .I am not interested in other people if they are not useful to me. I don't like to socialise as most people just talk rubbish.

Comments please?

[Octavius]

Does it make you think hidden �dragon� though, or dormouse!

Merely being class swot legend and trying to keep these disorderly socialites on an even keel before they all waddle off on all fours behind the sofa for a loners convention.

[skyep]

Octavius - Didn't you mean an anti - social club?

[raysparx1]

don't doubt ya leg, but i don't come on here much at night so it goes over my head, you got chickens? do they make spanish omlettes with the eggs?

[skyep]

Octavius - You are a 'class' act!!!! ( waddles off ) xxx

[skyep]

Come to think of it leg, they asked for our address, asked!!!
but didn't get in touch lol xxx They were a fantastic couple!

[leelapops]

skyep, haha! I am really tickled by all this. Octavius, I am afraid I hear you in my head as Stewie from Family Guy! Sorry.
ray, not heard from you for a while! You ar elucky to have met Julie, everyone seems to want a piece of her in the nicest possible way! ;)

x

[Octavius]

Legend I know that you have always held me in high esteem and looked up at me with puppy dog admiration. If I have gone down a bit in your estimation, it must still be at a height that would cause Alain Robert to suffer vertigo.

Thanks for your continued support though, here is a little star to put on your �I�ve been good� wall chart.

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[skyep]

leela, love family guy! xxx

[whiskeysheri]

Noooo, leela, he sounds like Mr Big from Sex and the City. :)

[raysparx1]

Hiya leela I owe you long e-mail, I will do it soon, promise, are you ok? xx

whiskey you got your hand out from where it was the other day? hope you washed it xx

[andrea81]

leelapops - I wasn't implying anything - I said that I might be speaking for myself! Others have said about hiding from callers though! x

[skyep]

Hi whisky! xxx

[whiskeysheri]

I did, ray. Nice and warm now, though. :)

Hi, skyep, hun. :)

[shaneystar2]

Very interesting thread .....I am quite happy with my own company .But ..the older I get I value the company of true friends and family more than people that I just have a nodding aquaintance with .
When we lived in abroad it used to be a nightmare ..we were always having to go somewhere and eat vast amounts of food and visit this relative and that relative.It was a social whirl and so regimentated .
Then the work dos and all that small talk with people who I had no interest in whatsoever ....screeeeam!
Mind you this was many years ago. Mr S reckons that living in England is much more laid back .
.If he's away for a few days my brothers descend on me as if I am not capable of functioning alone and want me to go here there and everywhere when I am quite content to poodle round doing my own thing .But I humour them because I love them .
I love the family get together because it's family and I value my good friends and love their company . But I can quite happily live in my own pocket .
And yes I have been guilty of hiding when unexpected callers turn up because I hate being caught on the hop unless of course it's a family member who is quite used to seeing me in disarray.
....we can't go through life completely alone and I certainly wouldn't use somebody for my own ends .I find that a bit selfish . BTW ....How do you know people are talking rubbish if you are not prepared to talk to them unless they are useful to you ?

[cruella]

Just back and reading over this thread for an update.
I have to admit, Hubby and muself are a bit like Ray and Wife.
Both have to be sociable during the day at work, but when we get home, we are happy with each other's company, whether it is out for a drink or staying in.
Picking up on Skyep hiding, (laughing) I hate the telephone. I feel it invades my space and absolutely hate it when I am at home.
Don't do tlephones or text messages at all. Emails yes, no problems, but I just detest having to drop everything when a phone rings. WE do socialise on holiday, but can take it or leave it.

[Bathsheba]

Another good reason for now answering the door to uninvited callers- just opened the door to a smartly dressed couple who asked me if I preferred white or brown bread. When I answered white, they lectured me on the health benefits of wholemeal bread.- blinkin Hovis witnesses. xxx

[skyep]

ARrrrrgh! good one bath!! lol xxx