I'm not Christian. Is the Christian God selfish? An analogy: As a gardener I sow some seeds, give the seeds water, keep them free from weeds, do everything I can to give them the best chance to grow. Some seeds will never germinate, some will germinate but wither. Some seeds will grow to maturity but get eaten by bugs or disease, and some will flower or fruit and eventually die. If, as a gardener I choose not to water the plants, or spray them for disease/bugs, then I am not being selfish I am being irresponsible or negligent of my duty as a gardener. However, if I leave the seeds to get on with it, the strongest plants will flourish and produce seeds that are more vigorous and able to survive. maybe that's the plan? Then again, Darwin worked that one out over 100 years ago.