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[EvianBaby]

Me AGAIN!

So, I had (another) first date on Tuesday. Went for a drink with a guy I'd been chatting to for a week or so. Got on really well and had a good laugh. When we left he said he'd like to meet up again and then we texted a bit later on. Said I seemed really lovely blah blah and would really like to see me again. I replied saying yeah me too, blah blah and that I was heading to bed. Not heard anything from him since then.

I do realise that was only the day before yesterday but frankly he was a total hotty and we had loads in common so I'm an eager beaver. But I don't want to be too eager do I.

So, should I wait and see if he gets in touch with me or do you reckon I should make the next move and if so, when?

It's at this point I feel I should remind you that I am in fact 29 years old and not 13 as this question most likely portrays me to be but I've kept this one to myself from friends & family cos I'm tired of having to tell them it's going nowhere again and again so I have to ask you lot. :)

[sara3]

Evian, keep that in mind.. be as picky as you like. when the right one comes along it'll all have been worth it.

[EvianBaby]

Oh, I can be very picky Sara. I once ended a date early because I didn't like the shoes he was wearing :)

[snags]

''I think I'd rather stay single than have two (potentially three) failed marriages under my belt.''

A case of, er, 'suck it and see' for want of a better term...

[sara3]

bad shoes.. unacceptable!

[ummmm]

*wonders off thinking about standards*

[magsmay]

Evian - was that was a bitchy remark aimed at me? Life throws curve-balls you will learn that - and I've been happily married now for nearly as long as you've been born ;-)

[sara3]

if you give it, you have to be prepared to take it.

[ummmm]

Was That Was.....wasn't that a band?

[jackthehat]

No, that was Was not Was.....:o)

[magsmay]

I can take whatever is given sara plus seconds -but not silently ;-) unfortunately I have a very witty comeback but its not worth getting suspended for -some things are and some just aren't ;-)

[sara3]

"witty" is subjective

[EvianBaby]

Oh go on, I'd love to hear it. I need a laugh.

[ummmm]

Ohhhh yeah...was not was.

[jackthehat]

Actually, I was wrong.

It was Was (not Was) and not Was not Was....

Sorry for the confusion. :o)

[Quoi]

eermm... i'm going off texting

[magsmay]

Evian -you would not be laughing -seriously x

[EvianBaby]

Let's hear it anyway. I'm a big girl, I can take it.

[jim360]

Guess we never will hear it.

Sorry about your bad luck evian, and hope it works out for you soon. I've been stuck in a similar situation - fingers crossed for it working out for me soon too!

[chattykathy]

Hey Evian, just read the whole thread and just wanted to tell you that my niece in law of 51 finally met the man of her dreams (after many years and men!) on t'internet and recently got married - for the 1st time!!! She's so happy!!! Just makes me think there's someone out there for all of us. Hold on to your dreams and keep looking!! ;-)

[joeluke]

He's just not that into you