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dontaskme | 09:02 Sat 01st Oct 2005 | Body & Soul
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I think I have found my soul mate..

is this possible even though I'm married?

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Of course.  There's no guarantee that the person you married was your soulmate, even though you might have thought they were at the time.  I also think it might be possible to have more than one at different times in your life.  sounds as if you have a lot of thinking to do!

Dontaskme,

Yes one can have a soulmate even though he/she is married but does that necessarily mean you need to "jack in" your marriage. I think not. Maybe and this is me heavily assuming maybe you see this soulmate person as an escape from your marriage.

Do I see  Mr. dontaskme and Mrs dontaskme becoming another statistic in a world full of self indulgence and self satisfaction hmmm time will tell........

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i haven't actually met my soul mate in the flesh...and I don't think its a sexual thing..but we just clicked,2 months ago I would have said it was a load of bull,but I could just chat with him for hours..I would never leave mr D, but this other guy stimulates my mind on a completely new level..I feel like a new me..
when you are married you get in a rut ..like comfortable ..and anything new that comes along stimulates you..you may have found your soul mate ..but...and its a big but...you never know anyone till you live with them..and people can tell you anything...perhaps you and mr d need to start doing more together and try to communicate...i can tell you what my other half is going to say before he says it..as i have known him 30 years..that sounds boring doesnt it..i talk him to death...
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But as its not a sexual thing and i've never met him, I'm not cheating..am I?
Cheating is a very flexible word and what one person considers cheating another wouldn't.  You're probably the best placed to answer that question!
Yes definately, I met my soul mate while on holiday and we have remained friends
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I don't feel guilty, so I guess i'm not..I do feel much happier with myself..

Do you feel happier because you like the stimulation and attention, feel flattered and attractive?  If this is the case then tread carefully - very carefully.  It's potentially the top of a long slippery slope.
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yes and no, Its weird,I don't feel happy cos I met him,I feel happy with myself, maybe he's not my soul mate, maybe he has just made me take a long hard look at myself and now I realise I'm actually quite a nice person, after all..If that makes sense..
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Did you meet this person on the internet? If so be careful, I think that the internet can sometimes dangerous, I am sue that you feel you can trust this person but just be aware. Sorry to be a downer  
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