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Hello all, I need advice to kind of get one over on someone with words.... im not too good with arguements etc and what to say!
Story is....... about this time last year I was single and fed up so decided to get in touch with my ex, not knowing he had a new gf. I kind of over reacted as he didnt wanna know and kept emailing him and dumped the stuff he had bought me outside his house. His gf got involved and started texting me etc.
I have a new boyfirend and haven't contacted him since then until a few weeks ago where I sent him a msg on a website saying 'hi how r u?' and then again after I saw him driving, none of which he replied to.
Thing is his gf has started sending me msgs like 'leave us alone' etc and 'stop pestering us' also ont he website. Personally, 2 msgs to me doesnt constitute pestering, just asking how someone is, no innuendos, no nothing!
I dont care about my ex anymore but get annoyed when his gf thinks she can send me these msgs. I am happy with my new bloke, very happy infact, but stuff like this just gets me all wound up!
I want to show her I dont care about them so does anyone have any ideas on what I cud write or how to handle the situation???
P.S. Please dont just tell me to leave it and not reply to the msgs, I want to annoy her, the vile B****!!!
Story is....... about this time last year I was single and fed up so decided to get in touch with my ex, not knowing he had a new gf. I kind of over reacted as he didnt wanna know and kept emailing him and dumped the stuff he had bought me outside his house. His gf got involved and started texting me etc.
I have a new boyfirend and haven't contacted him since then until a few weeks ago where I sent him a msg on a website saying 'hi how r u?' and then again after I saw him driving, none of which he replied to.
Thing is his gf has started sending me msgs like 'leave us alone' etc and 'stop pestering us' also ont he website. Personally, 2 msgs to me doesnt constitute pestering, just asking how someone is, no innuendos, no nothing!
I dont care about my ex anymore but get annoyed when his gf thinks she can send me these msgs. I am happy with my new bloke, very happy infact, but stuff like this just gets me all wound up!
I want to show her I dont care about them so does anyone have any ideas on what I cud write or how to handle the situation???
P.S. Please dont just tell me to leave it and not reply to the msgs, I want to annoy her, the vile B****!!!
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God people on this site are judgemental!
Oh of course... I forgot... everyone on this site is so god damn perfect that they can lay down the laws and walk around with their heads held high and corks up their bums! God....... such a judgemental lot... so much for sticking together! Can't wait till some of you need help!
Jammie - I know where you are coming from. I am the same with my ex's girlfriend. I am happy for them and they are having a baby and if I see her in town we stop and have a little chat... He won't speak to me and has told his mates he doesn't want to make things difficult for me!!! We have been broken up a year and a half and I am well over it.. anyway... but if she sent me a message speaking on his behalf like this I would want to b!tch slap her.... or someting equally rewarding.. simply because he was mine first and who is she to start sending me things like this! She hasn't... but I know where you are coming from. It's not about wanting him back.... it's about being made out to be the baddie when you know your own intentions were genuine!
Oh of course... I forgot... everyone on this site is so god damn perfect that they can lay down the laws and walk around with their heads held high and corks up their bums! God....... such a judgemental lot... so much for sticking together! Can't wait till some of you need help!
Jammie - I know where you are coming from. I am the same with my ex's girlfriend. I am happy for them and they are having a baby and if I see her in town we stop and have a little chat... He won't speak to me and has told his mates he doesn't want to make things difficult for me!!! We have been broken up a year and a half and I am well over it.. anyway... but if she sent me a message speaking on his behalf like this I would want to b!tch slap her.... or someting equally rewarding.. simply because he was mine first and who is she to start sending me things like this! She hasn't... but I know where you are coming from. It's not about wanting him back.... it's about being made out to be the baddie when you know your own intentions were genuine!
Take the hint and leave the poor guy alone will you? He clearly doesn't want to be mates with you so move on!
I'm with Octavius on this one. You are reacting to a situation that you (and you only) have created. Why not go one step further than the boiling of a beloved pet, and threaten the death of a family member, eh?
Crikey.
I'm with Octavius on this one. You are reacting to a situation that you (and you only) have created. Why not go one step further than the boiling of a beloved pet, and threaten the death of a family member, eh?
Crikey.
To be honest Jammie they don't give good advice these days! They are all up on their high horses looking down at us mere mortals! I really must have missed the day the horses were handed out on AB..... What the hell happened to everyone lately? This site used to be so nice and we all used to be able to rally together and have a laugh and stick up for eachother!
If someone had posted a Q like yours about 2yrs ago, we'd have all rallied round, called the girl a cow, made fun of her and told you not to worry about it and then you would have felt a million times better and probably never have wanted to send anything anyway.... All you needed was some moral support and a nice way of someone telling you not to bother.... That's what my friends would have done. Told me to leave the cow be! But nooooo.... lately on here everyone is a Judge!
Jeeez.... I'm having fun playing down here in the gutter anyway! ;o)
If someone had posted a Q like yours about 2yrs ago, we'd have all rallied round, called the girl a cow, made fun of her and told you not to worry about it and then you would have felt a million times better and probably never have wanted to send anything anyway.... All you needed was some moral support and a nice way of someone telling you not to bother.... That's what my friends would have done. Told me to leave the cow be! But nooooo.... lately on here everyone is a Judge!
Jeeez.... I'm having fun playing down here in the gutter anyway! ;o)
But sending messages like the ones rubyrose suggest will only result in them laughing together about what a stupid, crazy little b!tch you are. You may think the texts sound big and clever but they don't, they sound like some little girl trying to make an impression on two people who really couldn't give a sh!t about you. Nothing will anger her, it will just give her something to show your ex what a freak you are.
is that what advice is about then ruby, just agreeing and calling this girl a cow cause jammiedodger has a problem with her ? Can' t see the point of that to be honest. and in the long run, all that will do is fire her up even more. That won't help anyone.
The one thing i still love about ab is hearing ALL the differing opinions on a situation. Just agreeing for the hell of it is useless.
Your opinion is yours and others have theirs. Neither is right or wrong but purely that, an opinion.
The one thing i still love about ab is hearing ALL the differing opinions on a situation. Just agreeing for the hell of it is useless.
Your opinion is yours and others have theirs. Neither is right or wrong but purely that, an opinion.
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