finding out sex of child in a scan

[poltergeist]

well my wife today has just found out that she is going to have a boy. I am actually really dissappointed and now not looking forward to it at all.

I just cant imagine having a son and never ever wanted one. my wife doesnt care either way. Is there anything I can do to overcome these feelings? I really just am flattened buy this

[poltergeist]

squad how can you be so flippant about a life? velvetee for you to even suggest that makes my stomache turn. I would never take the life of another human. I wouldnt even hurt a spider although I really hate them. I always catch them and throw them outside.

You see behind this good looking, playboy, womanising, loaded, super witted exterior lies a really genuinly nice caring person.

I am trying to warm to the idea of having a boy but the whole idea really does freak me out. does ANYBODY have any advise please?

[USALady]

Yes, I have some advise.....GROW UP!

[poltergeist]

im 31!

[USALady]

You sound like a child! Either accept the fact that GOD GAVE you this child or leave mother and child now....it'll be much easier now than later.

[poltergeist]

wizzard its years actually. but I did find your reply rather funny. lol

[poltergeist]

USAlady I dont believe in God though.

[Seraphiel]

God had a son and look how that worked out.

[poltergeist]

apparently he was gay (according tio this book I am reading)

[Seraphiel]

God was gay?

[poltergeist]

no sorry his son, Jesus.

[ummmmmdedum]

Yet again poltergeist you prove that this is a wind up...!!!

[Seraphiel]

Are you worried your own son may be gay?

[poltergeist]

actually yes that is one of my biggest fears. ummmmm mind your own business. you are a nebie on this site. act accordingly

[tamborine]

Name it Cecilia and dress it in girly clothes - it wont know the difference till its too late.

[poltergeist]

but at wehat stage will it be too late?

[crazycathy2]

Why does it matter if he is gay?

[tamborine]

when its old enuf to thump you!

[ummmmmdedum]

You should read your replies and you would know that I am not a newbie on this site.

I think most people on this thread would back that up.

I'm off now....you bore me :-)

[craft1948]

I'm off for me tea.....