Affair with a married man/woman

[Miss Chief]

Do you think there are any circumstances under which the above is acceptable/excusable?

[pastafreak]

LEG...You've not answered mine or jake's questions

sqad.....I was not 'personalising' it...my remarks would apply to anyone who gave the reasons/justifications you have.

[Ankou]

well i think the original question can be answered with a resounding ....

it depends

[cazzz1975]

well when in doubt blame genetics/history/human nature

not everyone cheats though, maybe there is something wrong with the ones who dont cheat?

[legend-isgod]

Thing i wondered about.

A guy and woman both married and cheating on their partners.
Meetin in hotels etc .This goes on for months even years maybe.Then they get together maybe even marry.

Now these are two seasoned cheaters.


Say one or both of them wanted to cheat at some stage on their new partner.

Do you 5think their previous training and cheating expertise would make it even harder for their new partner to spot?

Im thinking theyd be so good at lying etc that their new partner would struggle.


sooooo


do cheaters who get together make more honest partners?

or are they just smarter after all the sneaking about?

[sqad617]

This thread is getting so boring that posters are trasferring to the "weeing in the bath" thread LOL LOL

Still no answer to my question...."why is infidelity so rife?"

Off to pee in the bath now.

[legend-isgod]

Jake ultimately she shouldnt have cheated , pasty im unsure what question?

jake she shpuldnt have cheated.

simple


thats the answer

thats my answer.

as sud said its about self respect and your morals.
i wouldnt have cheated and if it meant leaving then so be it.

as cazz said the atmospghere isnt good for kids .



did that help jake ?
if not could you hlp by telling me what kind of answer youd like ?

i can only say what i think not what you want me to think

[legend-isgod]

squad simple answer a decline in honesty and morals.



?? did that help ?

[pastafreak]

BH...just read thru it....was just a simple Q

[legend-isgod]

im multi taskin pasty

gurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[sqad617]

leggy....that will do nicely.......now I'm back to "peeing in the bath" thread. LOL

[legend-isgod]

squid



peee offfffffff

[sqad617]

leggy......LOL

[legend-isgod]

well
beat it

[jake-the-peg]

I guess

You're saying that people in that situation should stay with people they don't love and be faithful to them for the sake of their children.

It's an opinion

Not one that I can share though

[legend-isgod]

Jake i said nothing of the sort.

i do however think that folk shouldnt have children together unless they intend staying together.


did nthat help ?

[legend-isgod]

trigg not true

in the beginning man and woman werent married etc etc over the centuries we have become monogamous .

and now it seems man and woman are reverting to their more animal urges.


hence as i said .
a decline or a return if you like .

[pastafreak]

There are no longer the religious restrictions or those of public opinion that existed several centuries ago.....those would have put a damper on any extramarital experiments. Also....in some cases people just did not live as long...so what life they had was precious.