I have just had the misfortune to find myself pregnat at 50.
I thought I was going my menopause for the last 3 years.
Been taking natural supplements an everything to help with the sweats and all that.
Was even using condoms..
I just didn't think it possible.
I think you've done your bit to continue the human race! And I would have thought doctors would be mor sympathetic to older women anyway. Your choice (I'm sure I would have made the same), and good luck.
Not sure if it's been put out there, but have you thought of adoption? As gutted as i'd be in your position, im not sure i personally could go through with a termination at that late stage.
Hope I haven't upset you, but I dunno, makes me wince at that far in the pregnancy.
4 months is 16 weeks, and although abortions are carried out much later i really wouldnt suggest that its ever left that long unless there are serious medical issues.
i hope that you are seen soon and wish you all the best