modeller i do understand talaq and iddah and how many times its allowed but it wouldnt be a case of out i go... we live in my house not his......and if we did, as you have read the Qur'an then you will be familiar with surah 2 .... if not then you can see here its explained ..... 2:229 and after.....
http://www.submission...ran/noframes/ch2.html
also if i wished to divorce him and applied to the Sharia Council if he agrees then i forfeit the dowry and its finished and done with...if he doesnt agree the Council can issue divorce....
I also didnt say I had english marriage... i made a comment about english divorce in brackets in my first post solely because ive had a similar conversation somewhere else and because i didnt mention this i was set upon by a few people saying i didnt know 'the rules' .... i just thought i would point it out first in case that happened... i also said the only thing english marriage means to me is to be able to put married and wife on legal forms.... i never said i was or wasnt married the english way as thats my business and also wasnt what the thread was about.....
sorry if that sounded abrupt... i tend to ramble so wrote it 'to the point'