AOG - In common with everyone else on here, I am commenting on an incident at which I was not present, and which was partially recorded on a phone.
A lot of the argument is people talking over each other, and of course, we have no idea what any of the individual were thinking.
That makes anything other than a superficial assumption futile - and a superficial assumption of what has been said and concluded is what I offered.
So yes indeed - it is just my perception, I am not offering it as anything more than that.