I’m afraid I really don’t get where you’re coming from. When you said this:
"...but the British seem to be rapidly giving up on Britain."
I assumed that by “Britain” you meant the political entity that was Britain. But in the last few posts you seem more concerned about the niceties of what the remainder should be called were Scotland to gain independence. So which is it? The name is largely a fuss about nothing. The island that contains England, Scotland and Wales is known geographically as “Britain” and there is no reason why that should not continue. England and Wales, together with Northern Ireland can continue to be called the United Kingdom. There is no more reason to change its name than there is to change name of the European Union now that the UK has left. The EU lost about 13% of its population when the UK left; the UK would lose only 8% of its population if Scotland leaves.
You still seem to be suggesting that the 90% of people who do not live in Scotland are somehow responsible for the potential break up of the UK. There is only one group who are responsible for that and that’s the Scots who are supportive of independence. Few of the other 90%, as far as I can see, are clamouring for the break up. The Scottish Independence movement has been bubbling under since the 1960s. The SNP gained more prominence under the Callaghan government as the votes of its Westminster MPs were required to keep that government afloat. But far and away the greatest catalyst to the quest for independence came with the ridiculous devolution arrangements visited on the three minor nations by the Blair administration. Devolution would never satisfy the SNP and the devolved powers they have been granted have served only to strengthen their resolve to seek the ultimate prize.
Still you suggest this:
//But I do think the ball is in our court at the moment so to speak.//
Assuming by “our court” you mean England’s, why do you think that? I’ll ask again (because, short of suggesting the House of Lords be reformed, you haven’t really said) what are the 90% of non-Scots supposed to do with the ball that is in their court? Tell me what it is that the remainder of the British can do to prevent Scottish Independence. The English are not craving Scotland’s independence (though nobody could blame them if they were). The damage to the integrity of Britain, or the UK was done by the Blair government and is being perpetuated and built on by the SNP. English voters were to blame for putting their trust in Labour in 1997 but there’s nothing they can do about it now.