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I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfriend and we have been living together for 8 months now .In the early stages he was in awe of me but he has since, become more comfortable with me.
He lives with me in my flat. we have a next door neighbour who is a single mother with a young boy. The mother is a little bit nuts as one would expect being on her own with her child, but she does 'strange' things too such as walking in the hallway to throw her rubbish in sexy slips etc. Hmmmm......
Her child is very sweet and cute, but makes a lot of noise and I mean A-LOT of noise. If he is not screaming and throwing things and whining, it is his mother.
I have complained many times about this to the landlord because these are tiny city flats with thin walls, not exactly the ideal place to raise a child. The mother doesn't work and they never seem to leave their flat. My boyfriend agrees the woman is crazy but thinks I am a b***h for complaining about the child. Believe me, it not something I have done lightly but at 3 am it is like a banshee wailing and is scary. My best friend has said that for whatever reason my boyfriend has taken this Childs side (even though obviously my fight is not with the child) and that I deserve more loyalty from him. My friend has basically said that my boyfriend has chosen this child over me .... do you see it that way?
He lives with me in my flat. we have a next door neighbour who is a single mother with a young boy. The mother is a little bit nuts as one would expect being on her own with her child, but she does 'strange' things too such as walking in the hallway to throw her rubbish in sexy slips etc. Hmmmm......
Her child is very sweet and cute, but makes a lot of noise and I mean A-LOT of noise. If he is not screaming and throwing things and whining, it is his mother.
I have complained many times about this to the landlord because these are tiny city flats with thin walls, not exactly the ideal place to raise a child. The mother doesn't work and they never seem to leave their flat. My boyfriend agrees the woman is crazy but thinks I am a b***h for complaining about the child. Believe me, it not something I have done lightly but at 3 am it is like a banshee wailing and is scary. My best friend has said that for whatever reason my boyfriend has taken this Childs side (even though obviously my fight is not with the child) and that I deserve more loyalty from him. My friend has basically said that my boyfriend has chosen this child over me .... do you see it that way?
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Well, you could complain to your landlord or to the council environmental health, they will ask you to keep a noise diary, chances are not much will happen especially if she is paying her rent, the child will go to school eventually and grow up eventually. not a lot you can do. people have this problem up and down the country, with the housing shortage there are lots of families in flats and bedsits now. If you have the ability to move, it could be your only other option
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Hi Calico I think your posts are getting DISRESPECTFUL towards me. I think this post has brought up a a lot of YOUR insecurities that are blatantly evident in your posts.
It is a FACT that my boyfriend was in awe of me when we first moved in, positively besotted in fact ... are jealous of that, why does that bother you and not anyone else?
It is a FACT that she is a single mother an I mentioned that because there is other adult that I could raise the matter with.
It is FACT that she takes out her bins in sexy negligee and I personally think that is seedy and a bit desperate. that is my opinion.
It is FACT the flat cost £2000 and is aimed at City professionals NOT families ... this is why my company subsidies my rent.
I think you need to really look at your insecurities before you make harsh assumptions about me
It is a FACT that my boyfriend was in awe of me when we first moved in, positively besotted in fact ... are jealous of that, why does that bother you and not anyone else?
It is a FACT that she is a single mother an I mentioned that because there is other adult that I could raise the matter with.
It is FACT that she takes out her bins in sexy negligee and I personally think that is seedy and a bit desperate. that is my opinion.
It is FACT the flat cost £2000 and is aimed at City professionals NOT families ... this is why my company subsidies my rent.
I think you need to really look at your insecurities before you make harsh assumptions about me
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MD, I feel that you are being extremely disrespectful to the girl concerned and it's shallow and tacky. You clearly think you are much better than her.
I'm perfectly fine and dandy thanks very much in my relationship and living scenario so another off centre generalisation from you, but knock yourself out, I simply suggested as a FACT that your boyfriend doesn't have a problem with your neighbour, so you might be the one at fault not him.
I'm perfectly fine and dandy thanks very much in my relationship and living scenario so another off centre generalisation from you, but knock yourself out, I simply suggested as a FACT that your boyfriend doesn't have a problem with your neighbour, so you might be the one at fault not him.
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I feel MDW is more interested in arguing than being proactive. Ok so the property is aimed at professionals, if she wasn't suitable she would not have been allowed to rent it. I would imagine most people who live in small flats would not choose to stay there if they won the lottery. So perhaps she has no choice.
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