Ive met and made friends with loads of muslims through my work, and have found them to be thoroughly nice people on the whole.
The whole thing about women's place really just comes down to cultural differences in how we see women. Most westerners see the Hijab and the womens role in Islam as treating degrading, treating women as second class citizens.
However, when muslims see western women sleeping around, falling out of clubs drunk and vomiting in the street, having abortions, young girls wearing make up and short skirts whilst idolising glorified strippers like Britany Spears, and the general view in our society of women as sex objects they equally see this as degrading and demeaning.
Ive asked a number of muslim women about the hijab and their role in Islam and most talk about it being empowering.