I don't think you are asking me, naomi- but will reply anyway.
Women don't have to compromise. In the vast majority of situations, this is not actually a female problem. It tends to come down to men- who will not accept their own, if they dress differently. That's one thing that really needs to be addressed. If it weren't for that, men wouldn't have the desire to invade females, because they are less violent.
Also, there is only a small percentage who genuinely have dysmorphia- so I am not including them. But most do not like their own "stereotypes " and prefer others.
My view... is change the "stereotypes " and stop sterilising people who are individual.