speaking of cougars, this morning I discovered I'd accidentally requested one of Tarquin's mates to be a friend on FB and bless him he accepted. Must have done it scrolling on my kindle, I do find it a bit fiddly for some things. I've just had to sent him a pm and explain why I'm unfriending him, I only have a handful of 'friends', just family, and it might seem odd, especially if he has a partner. :) My friend accidentally requested her neighbour to be a friend ...and they don't get on, hahaha, I was in hysterics. Anyway he ignored her.