Shall i keep the baby?

[natnats]

I really dont no what too do. I am 9 weeks pregnant. I am 28 yrs old. 2 1/2 months ago i had a bad accident and broke 18 bones, nearly all have healed apart from my pelvis which is taking its time.

The father is a complete waste of space and doesn't want to no. He has messed me about from day one. I cant help but love him though. We only meet 3 months ago.

I dont no if i'm ready to be a single mum. I'm still at home with my parents and have no job because of the accident.

I keep changing my mind and cant stick to a final decision. It would be difffernt of the father was a decent guy and gave me some support.

I have an appointment next monday for a consultation at the abortion clinic. I really don't no what too do and dont want to regret my decision. I know, no matter what i decide it's going to be really hard. what shall i do?????

[netibiza]

I think maybe sqad is right!

[craft1948]

lol neti................so do I but don't tell him. (It's filled in a bit of time anyway)

[cazzz1975]

my advice would be to go and see your doctor and take it from there.

[4getmenot]

sqad she must have just come out of hospital, as she is already counted sa 4 weeks pregnant on her missed period. so that doesnt mean she had sex exactly 9 weeks ago, it is not counted from point of conception you should know that

[redcrx]

as i said before, no-one on here is going to be able to give you the right answer.
I think the pelvis problem is one that needs to be addressed pretty quickly though, if there is a risk to the pregnancy then the issue may only have one outcome anyway. You need to speak to your GP about that straight away. Plus, at 9 weeks, you dont have a lot of time to make the decision.

[Sqad]

4get...OK OK...let's do it your way.....2 weeks after sustaining a fractured PELVIS and 18 broken bones....she had intercourse and became pregnant...............yeah! right.

[netibiza]

apparently after having sex, you can get pregnant 3 days later in the queue at Primark!

[cazzz1975]

okay this is a serious topic area, either be helpful or bog off..

[4getmenot]

there are lots of ways to do it sqad. My bro cant work because of his back but had a son July last year, he's now got another baby due in sept, as he said he did the 'lotus' lol

[Sqad]

cazz......thank you for that USELESS piece of advice.......it is a matter of opinion as to whether it is serious....I don't think it is.

[kerriesmum]

I Dont have an opinion either way , just make sure you heed all the doctors advice about the physical implications of pregnancy with a broken pelvis. Also you need to think about the quality of life you can offer the child. I wish you lots of luck in making the decision that is right for you.

[cazzz1975]

reported.

[4getmenot]

I do so hope if you were a doctor you didnt ever speak to your patients the way you do on here sqad

[argorstran]

Keep the baby . If you don't you will never know what you missed . If you have a catholic church nearby , speak to the priest . You will find loads of support .

[natnats]

I did not fall pregnant exactly 9 weeks ago, as was pointed out earlier by someone it goes from the first day of last period so could of been 4 weeks later i concieved. I am at home with parents and not working due to the accident. I am currently looking for work but things dont happen over night.

[sandyRoe]

Could her partner have been a Sumo wrestler? Might account for the broken bones.

[DTCwordfan]

kerriesmum raised a very good point there. Given the state of your pelvis, you may find that this impacts on youir decision - go and see the Quack soonest.....

[Ric.ror]

Natnats I really hope that, whatever your decision, you find some piece
Speak to your mum no matter what your past relations have been like - it's at times like this we mums step up to the mark.
Your still her little girl and remember like all things this too will pass

[netibiza]

Yes cazz, I had already given (to my mind) a very sensible and nuetral reply, there's no need for comments like yours. Reported indeed, get a life!!