Shall i keep the baby?

[natnats]

I really dont no what too do. I am 9 weeks pregnant. I am 28 yrs old. 2 1/2 months ago i had a bad accident and broke 18 bones, nearly all have healed apart from my pelvis which is taking its time.

The father is a complete waste of space and doesn't want to no. He has messed me about from day one. I cant help but love him though. We only meet 3 months ago.

I dont no if i'm ready to be a single mum. I'm still at home with my parents and have no job because of the accident.

I keep changing my mind and cant stick to a final decision. It would be difffernt of the father was a decent guy and gave me some support.

I have an appointment next monday for a consultation at the abortion clinic. I really don't no what too do and dont want to regret my decision. I know, no matter what i decide it's going to be really hard. what shall i do?????

[RAV1D]

I think when you said things don't happen over night,Well in this case it looks like The main reason for this question happened overnight!

[RAV1D]

You have done your wrong doings now do the right thing and keep your son/daughter, don't wonder for the rest of your life what if,you only live once so don't miss out as you may not get the chance ever again.

[rowanwitch]

Average stay length for uncomplicated pelvic fracture (no other related injuries) 16.8 days

[bimbo123456]

Just a quick point...Marie Stopes....not unbiased. Google it...and what comes up is abortion clinic. I am also intrigued how someone with a broken pelvis was even vaguely interested in sex. However, you need to find someone to talk to. consider the four options already mentioned. But most importantly consider how you would feel after each of the possibilities. For one of them there is no turning back...

[whiskeryron]

It is very difficult to imagine the sexual act being actually performed with you having a fractured pelvis,& whats more if the guy who was your partner knew at the time about your injuries I think he was a louse to even consider it with apparently no thought to your pain & discomfort or my instinct natnats is that you were raped & should therefore take criminal proceedings against the bastard who did this to you & go for termination.
Ron.

[cathfromsaron]

ditto only you can say but if you keep the baby you need a plan that doesn't rely on anyone else! i have brought up two kids single handed and it was hard ... but rewarding too! you *can* do it if you want! xx

[B00]

Short answer no, you shouldn't.

Neither you or your partner, providing he wants anything to do with it, are financially capable of bringing up a baby. Also if you're at the dithering stage and asking on a forum about something like this....

[Ankou]

if you broke your pelvis, then that can take 6 - 9 weeks to heal. even if it was 4 weeks later that you conceived, the whole mating process must have induced absolute agony.

in many respects i agree with ron.